The primary focus of my youth
ministry in Saskatoon was to get a high school youth group up and running. The
resistance was vocal but not major. Selling the idea was a bigger deal. The
Millers had recently moved to Saskatoon from Regina and Cliff had been part of
a youth group. He came on board was our first “elected” president. Cliff drove
at that time and helped get kids who needed rides to and from events. We both
hauled a few people. The program built slowly but steadily. There was a fairly
large pool of youth within the church tow draw from and I knew it was going to
happen.
When I went to youth group as a
teen, the program was little more than a replica of “big church” but for teens.
We sang, took an offering and had some adult speak or a teen give a testimony.
According to the denominational constitution there were four elected teens to
serve as a miniature governing board. Their job was too look important, but do
it the way the handbook directed. Boring!
I struggled with the approach. I
was fighting that concept on an international level and chose to move toward a
broader format on the local level. We had the outward structure, but we were
going to have fun and see what God would do in our lives. That led to some unusual
and fun events. Because of my desire to build leaders my goal was to guide them
into events they would enjoy and stretch their skills to lead. They were not
handling simple responsibilities like, “You bring the mustard.” They researched
locations and costs. They booked facilities, they shopped when necessary, they
planned menus, ordered supplies and paid for them. If it was going to be their
program, they were going to run it and their ministries were going to be
meaningful and successful. Learn by doing.
I always told them I would be
right with them to do all I could to help them succeed, but if the ball were
dropped there would be a hole unless we could figure out a way to fill that
hole at the time. I don’t remember every situation, but I have no memory of any
huge holes. There was one that could have been bad.
We had a treasurer one year who
collected any money taken in. I went with him to the bank to make the first
deposit and he was to do that after each event where money was collected. He
was then to bring the bank statement to each monthly leadership meeting. He did
and as soon as I saw the statement, I knew he had not deposited any of the
money collected since I went with him the first time. I waited for someone else
to notice — they did and asked about it. He hemmed and hawed and then admitted
he had all the money at home in a shoebox. He forgot how he was to do it.
I met with him that week, checked
the contents of his shoebox to make sure it agreed with my figures and we went
to the bank again. This time rather than showing him, I made him do it. He
filled out a deposit slip - twice so he had some practice. I took a stack of
deposit slips and had him take some and told him it was to all to be done
before he left after we received income.
I know there was a chance he would have spent it. But making leaders means taking chances. He did great from then on.
We had a terrific adult leadership team that lead the small groups in Sunday school and helped out in AYF when needed. The kids were such great leaders we didn't need many adults around. Dr. Hindmarsh, Wes Bloom, Betty Turnbull, Della Walker were all key people. Doc, as the kids called him, made his home available for after group events and most New Years Eve all nighters were in their recreation room. Della and I had them at our place when the group was smaller, but eventually the Hindmarsh's had about the only place large enough to hold the group. He also brought his speed boat to camps for water skiing and his snow mobile for winter retreat rides in the snow. He had his wife used all they had to enhance youth ministry in our church, on the college campus and other city youth ministries. I not exactly sure, but he probably brought his things to the Christian Service Brigade camp as well.
After reading a few issues of "Did You Know" I noticed that several now prominent Alliance ministers and spouses names appear on this paper quite often. Reminds me that eventually Mrs. Bowkers and my prayers were more than answered. Many more than ten students went off to Bible College and many went into the ministry. I do wish I knew how many. Maybe before I leave writing about Saskatoon I might be able to get a partial list.
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CM - I was reading your August and July posts.
Thank you for your honesty about a struggling marriage. I think that many of us have been there. I recall thinking that Bonnie was holding me back many times during the first years of our marriage ... and recall a former pastor asking me, 'What color are your wife's eyes?' I answered that I did not know. 'How long have you been married?' I answered '5 years'.
I also enjoyed reading about how deeply you invested in the youth. You seemed to give of yourself, and let them still be funny, publishing a newspaper of silly gossip, and yet encouraged them via quizzing to lean God's word. It is nice to read about someone that launched young people rather than constrained them. I laughed at your writings, as this reminded me of the Clyde Walker that I knew, many years ago - encouraging, launching, and willing to let teens be as close to God as they wished to be.
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